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Apr 07, 2013

Gentlemen, do yourself a favor. Read this book! More importantly, really work on the practice. It works!

I'm in my forties, average health. Upon working with these teqniques I became super energized, happy, sexy, and had endless stamina. I learned to orgasm (without ejaculating) anytime, anywhere. I once nearly wrecked my work vehicle while driving on the highway having these thrilling orgasms pulsating through my body - all with both hands on the wheel! It really is amazing.

To Sarah - I wouldn't Gentlemen, do yourself a favor. Read this book! More importantly, really work on the practice. It works!

I'm in my forties, average health. Upon working with these teqniques I became super energized, happy, sexy, and had endless stamina. I learned to orgasm (without ejaculating) anytime, anywhere. I once nearly wrecked my work vehicle while driving on the highway having these thrilling orgasms pulsating through my body - all with both hands on the wheel! It really is amazing.

To Sarah - I wouldn't bother. It's clear that your deep insecurity would never allow for the kind of openness required of individuals seeking this kind of personal development. May your man's high-paying job bring you happiness.

For Debra - Maybe some older men have learned to control their timing but this book takes you further. I expect that many men, young and old, have learned to stop and think about baseball to prevent what the author calls 'the Little Death'. But I doubt many have learned, on their own, how to recycle the chi energy and prevent the painful accumulation that is 'blue balls'. This is where the dicipline really comes in. If you do it right, practice the breathing and energy cycling lessons, that smug smile on the face of the model on the cover will unwittingly appear on yours. It has for me. It has positively effected every aspect of my life.

Don't give up and don't give in to common notions of sexuality - especially you, old dudes! ...more

5

Aug 11, 2012

This book blew my mind. I've always been interested in sexuality and making love and now I finally have the time to focus on this fascinating area. The book is about how any man can experience multiple orgasms and dramatically enhance his sexual relationship. It should be on the bestseller lists! It was great for me to read, as a woman, because it gave me so much insight into male sexuality. The fact that men are as capable of having multiple orgasms as women was, for me, awe- inspiring. And, of This book blew my mind. I've always been interested in sexuality and making love and now I finally have the time to focus on this fascinating area. The book is about how any man can experience multiple orgasms and dramatically enhance his sexual relationship. It should be on the bestseller lists! It was great for me to read, as a woman, because it gave me so much insight into male sexuality. The fact that men are as capable of having multiple orgasms as women was, for me, awe- inspiring. And, of course, multi-orgasmic men enjoy better health, vitality and longevity! ...more

5

Jun 03, 2010

This should be mandatory reading before becoming sexually active. Life-changing stuff.

4

Jun 09, 2007

Very Enlightening. This book is a must for men who want to develop skills to heighten the sexual experience and raise their stamina.

3

Jun 25, 2016

While this book indeed has tips for better sex, it also has something else: it's based partly on science but more on Taoist beliefs that involve the notion of qi energy. (Thus, I put it in my Theology shelf because it promotes the beliefs of a particular religion as true.) This is a problem. By all accounts, the book believes there really is such a thing. It pretends this is a scientific notion by equating it (for a moment until it forgets that) with electricity; it quotes a Discover magazine While this book indeed has tips for better sex, it also has something else: it's based partly on science but more on Taoist beliefs that involve the notion of qi energy. (Thus, I put it in my Theology shelf because it promotes the beliefs of a particular religion as true.) This is a problem. By all accounts, the book believes there really is such a thing. It pretends this is a scientific notion by equating it (for a moment until it forgets that) with electricity; it quotes a Discover magazine that says that there is electricity in the body and pretends that something was proven, that that's what traditional Chinese medicine knew all along. Well, qi is not a scientific concept, nor is it electricity. As you can read from Trick or Treatment: The Undeniable Facts about Alternative Medicine, the old Chinese medicine made up a notion of energy coursing around the body because they had a policy of not opening any bodies to see what's actually inside. Neither the medicine nor the energy has been validated by modern science. (Why believe the other book over this one? Because Trick or Treatment is about the most scientific-evidence-based book I've seen, and embodies an excellent understanding of the scientific method.)

That doesn't mean that this book is useless. If the Taoists have learnt to have lots of orgasms, feel great, and maybe become healthy as well, they're worth listening to for advice even if their theory is wrong. The attitude towards sex here is also very healthy - positive and respectful.

But there is a theoretical point of view as well. If you buy this stuff about "energy" literally, you will be quite misled. Even for me as someone who already knew to dismiss it, it was a problem. Many explanations were given in terms of "energy", which just meant I couldn't read about what the real reason was. Even the explanations that used scientific terms - how could I know if they were correct when the authors were willing to accept other unscientific or pseudoscientific explanations? And it would have been interesting to read about "qi" from an actual modern perspective. I have long suspected that thinking about "energy" is a useful mental tool. There is nothing surprising about that considering how suggestion works and how it's often useful to imagine something when trying to learn something. (Though "energy" can be a useful metaphor, it can also be pretty vacuous - anything can always be explained by saying energy does something or other.) I would have loved to hear an exposition of how you can use those mental images but what really happens at the same time. Some of the time, there was something like that here since modern physiological descriptions were used in addition to the "energy" ones, but treating "energy" as real rather than metaphorical prevented discussing that properly. ...more

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Nov 09, 2008

For those who gave and "urged" me to read this book,
Just wanna say.. *shaking hands in the air furiously*

DO YOU THINK I'M A SEX IMBECILE WHO NEEDS A GUIDANCE?!
DO I LOOK LIKE A COMPLETE SEX IDIOT TO YOU?!

*Whaadezziiiigghh*

Well, I can only added the book.
I "refuse" to rate this book for a personal reason :D
The funny thing is that somehow I remember a song that tell the story about a young man named Rael who tried to apply his first "romantic encounter" based on a guidance from a book of sex. The For those who gave and "urged" me to read this book,
Just wanna say.. *shaking hands in the air furiously*

DO YOU THINK I'M A SEX IMBECILE WHO NEEDS A GUIDANCE?!
DO I LOOK LIKE A COMPLETE SEX IDIOT TO YOU?!

*Whaadezziiiigghh*

Well, I can only added the book.
I "refuse" to rate this book for a personal reason :D
The funny thing is that somehow I remember a song that tell the story about a young man named Rael who tried to apply his first "romantic encounter" based on a guidance from a book of sex. The outcome? quiet disastrous, hahaha. *nyabet gitar*

Counting Out Time by Genesis
lyric : Gabriel
music : Banks/Collins/Hackett/Rutherford

I'm counting out time,
Got the whole thing down by numbers.
All those numbers!
Give me guidance!
O Lord I need that now.

The day of judgment's come,
And you can bet that I've been resting,
for this testing,
Digesting every word the experts say.
Erogenous zones I love you.
Without you, what would a poor boy do?

Found a girl I wanted to date,
Thought I'd better get it straight.
Went to buy a book before it's too late.
Don't leave nothing to fate.
I studied every line, every page in the book,
Now, I've got the real thing here, I'm gonna take a look, take a look.

This is Rael!

I'm counting out time, hoping it goes like I planned it,
'cos I understand it. Look! I've found the hotspots, Figs 1-9.
- still counting out time, I got my finger on the button,
"Don't say nuttin - just lie there still
And I'll get you turned on just fine."
Erogenous zones I love you.
Without you, what would a poor boy do?

Touch and go with 1-6.
Bit of trouble in zone No. 7.
Gotta remember all of my tricks.
There's heaven ahead in No. 11!
Getting crucial responses, dilation of the pupils.
"Honey get hip! It's time to unzip, to unzip, zip, zip-a-zip-a-zip.
Whipee!"

- Move over Casanova -

I'm counting out time, reaction none to happy,
Please don't slap me,
I'm a red blooded male and the book said I could not fail.
I'm counting out time, I got unexpected distress from my mistress,
I'll get my money back from the bookstore right away.
Erogenous zones I question you -
Without you, what would a poor boy do?
Without you, what would a poor boy do?
Without you, mankind handkinds thru' the blues.

Hahaha.. Ditabok! Rasain lu! Sotoy sih... ...more

5

Mar 12, 2015

The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Chai Mantak and Douglas Abrams is a great resource describing how to achieve the results the title suggests. Surprisingly, women I see in the clinic ask questions about this. Often the women acquire it and confirm the results, often accompanied by their mates.

More males reading this good book will, with patience and practice, enjoy the outcome. Double entendre intentional.

I recommend this book frequently.

3

Jun 15, 2014

Some interesting perspectives, but it really lost me at the whole Tao stuff.
I think it contains some interesting basics into becoming more sexually aware.

I still need to figure out how much I'll believe in the TAO stuff.

5

Feb 15, 2017

This is some groundbreaking stuff. I wish it would be taught at school

5

Aug 01, 2007

I give this book 5 stars because i'm glad that it exists. Though I own it, I've never finished it and wish I was disciplined enough to follow it's maxims. It's like yoga but for bonin.

3

Feb 29, 2008

A great book for beginners. Penis goes in hole, thrust motion begins, remember your breathing techniques.

4

Sep 12, 2015

Might have been where I saw the reference to Buddhist morning prayer.

4

Jun 13, 2012

In response to Sarah, maybe the title and smug grinning man on the front will attract the kind of reader who will benefit most from this essential read for any young man. Obviously it would be lovely to think that our older men have already come by this knowledge somewhere along the line...

5

Aug 01, 2016

This is the best non-fiction book I have ever read. Changed my life more than just about any other book I can think of. I call it my "bible" and go back to reread it every few years for a refresher course. Tantric sex without all the mumbo jumbo, just clear instructions and fun exercises that really work. I would love to hear if other people have had success too.

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Dec 10, 2009

I didn't read this book and i don't plan to. But every time I walk by the sexuality section (where it is faceout) the picture of the creepily smug man freaks me out. Not that publishers care about my opinion of male sexuality books, but it doesn't say "multiple orgasm man" to me -- it says mustache-twiddling Snidely Whiplash Boris-and-Natasha villain. "I can't pay the rent!" "You MUST pay the rent!" "I can't pay the rent!" "Rodrigo! Save me! Save me!" Etc.

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Apr 05, 2019

This gave me much to think about. The idea that men feel depleted after ejaculation is a very ancient one, and not just in the East – two and a half thousand years ago, the Greeks mused that it was caused by the jealousy of the gods. We may not think that now but it seems fair enough to suggest that after each ejaculation a man feels a sense of loss which may be essentially physiological but also has wider and deeper ramifications, psychological and spiritual. Many authorities, from the Romans This gave me much to think about. The idea that men feel depleted after ejaculation is a very ancient one, and not just in the East – two and a half thousand years ago, the Greeks mused that it was caused by the jealousy of the gods. We may not think that now but it seems fair enough to suggest that after each ejaculation a man feels a sense of loss which may be essentially physiological but also has wider and deeper ramifications, psychological and spiritual. Many authorities, from the Romans to the Early Church Fathers to modern sports coaches, have suggested it is better to bottle things up rather than let them go…

This book draws on the Taoist tradition to suggest that separating orgasm from ejaculation is the way forward, and discusses in some detail (and with the help of many line illustrations) how it is possible to have lots of the former without any of the latter.

I am interested in Taoism and I am interested in sex (being in the unusual situation of enjoying a great deal of it in the last year or so, after many decades of near or total celibacy). So I found this interesting, though I am not entirely convinced by it. Oddly, some of the techniques reminded me of the Spiritual Exercises of Saint Ignatius Loyola. I wasn’t convinced by them either. But maybe I’m just too spiritually immature to take this seriously enough. I’d have liked more about the Taoism and maybe not quite so many drawings of willies. ...more

5

Oct 01, 2017

Holy bananas Batman! This is a great book. (Sexually explicit material ahead. [Not smut or anything, but if you're reading a review on a book called "Multi-Orgasmic Man" you should expect some mention of body parts and whatnot. Hiding just in case you didn't put two and two together.])

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So my guy Mantak Chia sets out right off the bat telling you how great being multi-orgasmic is, and then gives you specific steps you can take to get there. A lot of it we've heard before - Holy bananas Batman! This is a great book. (Sexually explicit material ahead. [Not smut or anything, but if you're reading a review on a book called "Multi-Orgasmic Man" you should expect some mention of body parts and whatnot. Hiding just in case you didn't put two and two together.])

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So my guy Mantak Chia sets out right off the bat telling you how great being multi-orgasmic is, and then gives you specific steps you can take to get there. A lot of it we've heard before - strengthen your PC muscles, for instance. But then there's also a lot that we haven't heard before (or at least, I haven't, and I'm not exactly a new reader of this kind of content).

As a for instance, Chia talks a lot about manipulating your sexual energy, and moving it throughout your body to experience whole body orgasms rather than just genital/ejaculatory orgasms. This is actually the crux of the entire practice - that you can achieve sexual fulfillment without ejaculating. I know that if I were to suggest this to most of the men I know in America, they would look at me like I had grown a third arm. But as I've started practicing, I've found that yes, it's possible, and quite fun. I haven't had what I would term a full body orgasm as of yet (TMI? Nah, part of the book is about being able to talk about sex and sexuality without shame.), but I have learned to control my ejaculation, allowing me to last longer, become more connected with my partner and experience greater pleasure overall.

Let me be clear: This book does not take as its goal the idea that we can increase our power by becoming multi-orgasmic. Rather, the idea is that by learning about our bodies, what we like, and finding ways to move that energy around in our body, we can achieve new heights of pleasure and lead fulfilling sexual lives. It is not about, "yeah girl, imma make you cum so hard," it's about, "yeah girl, I want to experience greater pleasure with you - I want to give you pleasure, and receive it in kind." It is about having a healthy sexual mindset, that is not based on what we learned in porn when we were 14.

While it does say that this practice will be easier with a long term partner, or at least a partner that you know well and that you trust a great deal, it does not prescribe marriage, or monogamy, or even heterosexuality. In fact, it has sections on using this practice outside of a single partner, as well as with other men.
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Basically, this book is extremely sex positive, and I have learned a great deal. I intend to continue the practice, and I look forward to sharing this book with my kids, when the time comes. (Many, many years from now.) ...more

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Apr 05, 2016

Definitely a key work on a topic that is currently more unknown. Well written. There is a good blend between practical content (which is a lot of it really) and explanations of the deeper spiritual principles undergirding them.

Finishing the book I do still have some questions left unanswered, so that's why I say its a key work but I still think there's more to understand.

I do believe it is true that applying the basic practices in the book will significantly increase and enrich anyone's health Definitely a key work on a topic that is currently more unknown. Well written. There is a good blend between practical content (which is a lot of it really) and explanations of the deeper spiritual principles undergirding them.

Finishing the book I do still have some questions left unanswered, so that's why I say its a key work but I still think there's more to understand.

I do believe it is true that applying the basic practices in the book will significantly increase and enrich anyone's health and understanding of sexuality in many beneficial ways - in particular the reasoning behind why the typical "big bang" O may not be the best for one's short or long term health; and then learning alternative practices.

For those that are skeptical by the title, the author reminds the reader that it wasn't too long ago that multiple female orgasms were discovered, and now they happen to be more or less the norm almost. ...more

5

May 21, 2016

Mantak's "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" is a book I believe every man should read. This book not only details a man's orgasm, but also gives relevant history as to the ancient practices that these techniques were born from. Coming into it, you may not have any sexual problems but this book is here to evolve the way you look at your sex life, your body and your orgasm. I was very apprehensive to the idea of multi-orgasming but as I began practicing these techniques shortly after initially reading, I Mantak's "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" is a book I believe every man should read. This book not only details a man's orgasm, but also gives relevant history as to the ancient practices that these techniques were born from. Coming into it, you may not have any sexual problems but this book is here to evolve the way you look at your sex life, your body and your orgasm. I was very apprehensive to the idea of multi-orgasming but as I began practicing these techniques shortly after initially reading, I was sold 100%. No gimmicks, just ways to self-improve as a man. ...more

4

Jul 02, 2015

Although it's not the most riveting in writing style (it reads like a manual), the techniques and practices detailed in this book have the potential to almost immediately change most mens' sexual (and spiritual) lives for the better - there aren't many other things that offer such 'bang' for the buck.

5

Aug 24, 2009

hah hah. i couldnt resist putting this one up. actually, saw this book recently on a friends shelf in london. dont know if i learned anything i didnt really know.. but boy did it make raffe blush when i showed him!

4

Feb 14, 2015

Contained a lot of valuable information for men of all sexual backgrounds and orientations as well. You will learn a lot of the male anatomy and physiology. The techniques are worth trying and it is a MUST read. Very informative and instructive as well.

4

Apr 28, 2008

Learn about techniques for the cultivation of sexual energy; for taking the energies that build up in states of desire and channeling them through ones being, for the sake of awareness, realization, healing, and heightened states of ecstatic experience.

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Jul 18, 2009

If you'd like to know what I thought of this book, please contact me directly and I'd be happy to discuss it with you.

All the best,

- TB

5

Nov 08, 2016

Very important and powerful techniques if you have the self discipline.